Saturday, May 18, 2013

Partners


Today was a very special day!  Graduation day from Partners in Policymaking!! Yaaaa! 

You know when I first was accepted to the class, people told me it was going to be life changing.  To be honest, I really didn’t believe them.  I thought I was just going to hear the same things I knew about being a self-advocate.  I have been advocating for people with disabilities for years.  I am pursuing a Master’s in rehab counseling.  Come on, I better know this stuff. 

Man, I was wrong!!!!!!!!

We had pretty amazing speakers that came and taught us about different disability issues.  I laughed, cried, got angry, and celebrated.  I learned that knowledge is power.  I learned that knowing history is key to impacting the future.  I could go on and on about the things I learned….

But I think I have to say that I think that relationships within the group are what changed my life!  I met some of a most amazing people in Virginia.  Some of my friends have disabilities like me!  We talked about our hardships and how we could overcome them.  We cheered each other as we accomplished our goals.  We giggled over dinners and relaxed in the lounge. 

Then, there were the parents of children with disabilities.  All I can say is WOW!  I have never met so many dedicated, accepting, and loving people in all my life.  These mothers and fathers are living relentlessly to give their child with a disability the opportunity to live life to the fullest.  There is one father with a disability that changed my life.  I never told him but I have some fears about becoming a mother and being in a wheelchair.  He explained to me that there are times when he struggles to care for his children but there is nothing that can stop him from loving them. 

Lastly, there is Joe!  Joe may be the cutest almost five year old boy I have ever met!  I met him just before I was about to leave.  Let me tell you, an hour later, I still didn’t want to leave.  We made faces,  we danced, and he even followed me across the room.  He stole my heart in .2 seconds.  His smile filled my heart!  I pray that every person that encounters Joe will catch his joy like I did! 

In the end, the reason I want to be an advocate for people with disabilities is that I believe we all have gifts to share! 

Congratulations PiP Class of 2013!

Sunday, April 21, 2013

Making Decisions in Adulthood

You know when I was young, making a decision was a lot easier.   Coke or Pepsi?  Coke duh!!   Chocolate or Vanilla?  CHOCOLATE!  

But as an adult, the questions are getting harder and I am learning that many choices can change my life.  Last fall, I decided to go back to school.  I found something that sparked my interest.  Rehabilitation counseling.  I absolutely love what I am studying.  I am getting so many opportunities to serve the disability community.  And not just locally but around the state.  I am really excited to become a role model.  The song that in my heart is "Legacy".  I want to be remembered because I chose to love Christ with every ounce of my heart.  I  view my disability as a gift from God.  Now, I know people are going to be like no way.  But I believe this with my whole heart.  I am so excited about the opportunities.  

So what is my problem about making decisions?  Finding a job.  FULL TIME.  I have been applying to every full time CTRS position I know.  Even one a few hours away.  I have went several interviews but not one offer.  Disappointed?  Yes.  

But recently, I have gotten two statements of advice from two people I love dearly.  David asked me if I had prayed.  OF COURSE.  No, really, have you given it to Him?  Completely?  No.  Then my friend Emily said to look through windows when He closes doors.  

So I  am deciding to give it to Him and look through windows!

Sunday, April 14, 2013


Well, my friends, I have done it.  For years, I have said I was going to blog, but I have been afraid to start.  Today, I was sitting alone with God and He reminded me that I have so many stories of blessings to share.  I came up with the title in a matter of minutes.  I think even though I don't have the ability to walk, I can soar!  I hope you will come fly with me!  

Some awesome stories are coming soon!